Three Fundamental Techniques

in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

 Reflection: What this quote is stating is that if you want something don't do something stupid that will mess it up. For example if you want good grades don't just not do home work because you don't want to. You should actually push yourself and try.If you actually really want something actually try because it won't be handed to you. Like you are going to want honey from the beehive obviously the first thing you wouldn't want to do is kick it over because then that will lead to terrible consequences with the bees. If you really want something you won't complain about what you have to do to get there. What I will do to apply this technique is not complain about anything I really want.

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation

"The big secret in dealing with people."
Reflection: When you want to handle people you have to be honest with them. You may think lying is the best choice at the moment to spare their feelings but at the end it will back fire. It also may just end up hurting the other person more that just saying the truth. Also if you aren't honest how will you expect the other person to trust you. Always appreciate what you have and who you have by your side. Never be rude to them and make them feel useless. If you do that the other person will just not want to be around you anymore. Always be thankful for what you have because others may be wishing for something you have when you should also be thankful for having that. I will apply this technique by always be honest and thankful for what I have. I will also appreciate what others do for me.

Technique 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely way"
Reflection: Always believe that you can do whatever you because you can do anything you set your mind to. Never give up on your dreams you are capable to do whatever you want. Always work hard and give it your best. If you don't try you won't succeed. Nothing ever gets handed to you in this world everyone works for what they want. Set your mind in a positive way because even when things get tuff you can always get back up and try again. I will apply this technique by always trying hard and never give up on my goals.

Final Reflection: These three fundamental techniques in handling people will help you throughout the rest of your life, This will help you handle people in a positive way without causing any problems and with out having people dislike you. This will teach you to be a better person with others in any situations you are confronted with in the future. I believe that these techniques may work on some people but it may not work on people that are offended easily or have short temper. I will apply these three techniques by not critizing others and being honest and sincere.